Bella Vista Church of Christ



Randall Caselman


We Are What We Choose


  A young boy brings home a report card, wondering how he was going to face his parents with such low marks, which were a result of his own laziness and lack of self-discipline. At the supper table he finally gets the courage to present his grades. Handing the card to his parents, he said: “Here's the bad news, and I can't figure out if it is the result of heredity or my environment.”


  Today, we are being led to believe that character and capacity are determined by something other than our own discipline. Some contend that what we are is a result of our environment. Others insist that genes determine character. The truth is we are what we are because we choose to be.


  We must know that we can: Alter our environment. Control our desires. Overcome our weaknesses. And rise above our heritage. Joshua said: “Choose for yourselves whom you will serve... But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”  Joseph chose not to involve himself with Potiphar’s wife saying, “How can I sin this sin against God.” Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego refused to worship the golden image. The Hebrews writer tells us Moses chose mistreatment rather than enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season. Paul chose to change his life from a persecutor of Christians to proclaiming Christ. Peter says of Jesus: “When they hurled their insults at Him, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats. Instead, He entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.” How do we do it? How do we alter our environment, control our desires, overcome our weaknesses, and rise above our heritage?


  We must correct our thinking. Solomon declares, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” As we think, we are! Jesus said: "Out of the heart man speaks, out of the heart comes the issues of life.” Thoughts ultimately control who and what we are. Step number one, then, is clean up the mind, change the heart. We can do this. Paul says, “We are to have the heart, the mind, the attitude of Jesus.” So it is within our power to change our thinking.


  Watch the company we keep.Do not be misled; bad company corrupts good character.” Evil companions corrupt good morals and stunt our spiritual growth! We must know that bad company includes more than people. What about the kind of television and videos we watch, the movies we go to, the kind of books and magazines we read, and the websites we visit? Paul admonishes: “Be not conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Do not allow the world to force you into its mold. Yes, we do have control over the company we keep. Amen?


  Exercise our will. God created us free moral agents. We make our own choices. Sometimes we must get hold of our “want-to” by our “will” and determine this is the attitude I’m going to have and this is the way I will behave. We know this is possible because Paul says, Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” James contends, “We are tempted when we are drawn away by our own evil desires.” Know this, temptation does not control us, we control it. God promises we will not be tempted or tried beyond that which we can control.


  Understand our weaknesses. Not all of us are tempted by the same sins. Yes, the drunkard, the fornicator, the homosexual, the materialist, the thief and the liar may have a propensity toward their particular sin caused by environment, heredity, or even body chemistry, but the final choice is ours to make. Most of us have a tendency toward overeating, a preference for calories, fat, salt and cholesterol becauseof our environment, personal desires, heredity and body chemistry, but the choice is ours. We eat what we choose to eat! We must understand our “sin weaknesses” and take the necessary steps to protect ourselves against anything that would invade our weakness, tempting us.


  Raymond Carlson says, “We can ride a bicycle to our destination with honor or we can fly a jet to our destruction. The driver, not the vehicle, determines our destination. The quality and character of life rest with us.”